ABSTRACT
This exercise can be used by the trainer or the couple to identify areas of the dyadic relationship that need adjustment. Accelerator and Brake Worksheet and pencils for each dyad. Counseling resulting from the assessment may be carried forth a number of sessions as specific problem areas are addressed. Most couples can readily identify and discuss what would happen with an automobile when the brake and accelerator were increased simultaneously or in a haphazard manner. The assessment provides an opportunity to see whether each member of the couple is experiencing the same marriage. The exercise provides a vehicle for opening communication to problem areas of the relationship. Introduce the exercise by talking about the analogy of a marriage relationship and an automobile in terms of the necessity of the accelerator and brake working in a cooperative manner if the auto is to progress smoothly downs the road.
