ABSTRACT
This chapter explores real-life questions and issues that lesbians have about dating, sex, love, and relationship longevity. It analyses the relationship between Maureen and her lesbian partner, Gloria and the author are middle-aged with what seems like such busy, overwhelming lives. It shows how do Maureen and Gloria do it because it's true that we do preserve and protect our time together despite the demands of the rest of our lives she proud and pleased to say that she think we do a better job of it than most. Maureen and the author are committed, not only to having a relationship, but to being in one. All of these requirements take a lot of time. A lot of time is what we give to them. We make it for lunch on the run at Poor Richard's. They make it sipping martinis on the Broadmoor patio. Our relationship has taught me that, for even the most hard-core busyness addict.
