ABSTRACT
This chapter explores respect in people's relationship and some ideas on how to achieve a sense of respect between people and their partner, both of whom are worthy of respect. Respect, like trust, is something most people would like to experience in their relationships. In processing respect in group, it seems that "I respect you" is seldom stated between two people. Instead, group members have said that respect is largely communicated through nonverbal, action-oriented means. Some people choose to gain respect through demands, threats, and violence, whereas others choose kindness, support, and cooperation. In people's quest to become less abusive and controlling, respect must be gained through responsible behaviors, thoughts, and feelings. For many people, thinking back over their life and those they have respected can help them figure out some basic characteristics of respect. The chapter examines the traits and behaviors of people and explores how fear and respect have intersected in people's life.
