ABSTRACT

Back in Catholic elementary school, reflection was mandatory. Time was set aside for regular prayer (to reflect on our blessings and shortcomings), and we were taught that the Watchful Eye of God was always upon us. The latter encouraged a certain habit of self-monitoring, to gauge how one’s thought and action appeared from His point of view. Thus: “Catholic guilt,” the feeling that whatever good one can do, one ought to do. I do not necessarily recommend raising children this way.