ABSTRACT
All science begins with observation and then proceeds to a description of what was observed. Description of a couple’s pattern of interaction is not easy because relationships differ from one another along many dimensions. They differ in terms of the characteristics of the partners, the social norms and laws that govern behavior in the relationship, the activities in which the partners engage, and countless other details. Relationship partners themselves are sometimes puzzled about how best to describe their relationship to others—and to themselves. They wonder if their relationship is “healthy” or “dysfunctional,” “superficial” or “close,” “platonic” or “romantic,” “significant” or “meaningless.” The array of adjectives people commonly use to describe their relationships is vast. Choosing the right adjectives to accurately and succinctly describe a relationship is difficult not only because relationships differ from one another on so many dimensions but also because the meanings of many descriptors are unclear.
