ABSTRACT
This chapter describes intelligence that is socially constructed—but instead of a focus on the perspectives and viewpoints of others as equally valid. Extelligence is developed through the process of “complicity”—that is, the integration of the internal knowledge systems with the external media knowledge. In computer-mediated relationships the development and level of intimacy depend on how much the partners rely on self-disclosure. In some computer-mediated relationships, self-disclosure is used as a strategy to determine whether a person on the other end of the keyboard can be trusted with such information and vulnerability. Relationship maintenance was discussed with attention to how technology contributes to relationship satisfaction, and the role of technology in developing and maintaining intimacy. The chapter concludes with a discussion around how technology intersects with termination of relationships. Most of the research regarding technology and communication in relationships that has to do with family is focused on mothers.
