ABSTRACT

Bringing to light new developments in the treatment of marital conflict, this second edition of How to Talk to a Narcissist addresses the ever-changing faces and phases of narcissism within the context of marital therapy. This is a practical guide that focuses on specific communication styles in addressing patients with severe narcissistic personality pathology, as well as those with borderline personality disorder.

The book starts with an overview of the different kinds of narcissists and borderlines. Dr. Lachkar analyzes these high-conflict personality disorders from a clinical, psychodynamic, and psychoanalytic perspective and delves into the various defenses that a narcissist or borderline might use. Updated treatment approaches and techniques are included along with an examination of the historical and theoretical perspectives that ground these approaches. Also included are detailed case illustrations.

This book is useful for both beginning and seasoned practitioners and is recommended for all clinicians treating individuals, couples, and groups within the scope of various narcissistic personality disorders.

chapter |4 pages

Introduction

chapter 1|13 pages

His/Her Majesty the Narcissist

chapter 2|10 pages

Overview of the Borderline

chapter 3|9 pages

The Dance, the Bond, the Drama

chapter 4|21 pages

Treatment Approaches and Techniques

chapter 5|10 pages

Theoretical Perspectives

Our Founding Fathers

chapter 7|17 pages

About Love

chapter 9|2 pages

Closing Thoughts