ABSTRACT

The Good-Enough Sex model of male and couple sexuality is the most challenging as well as most important concept. The traditional male sex model has been all about a big, powerful penis and perfect intercourse performance to prove oneself to the woman and be competitive with male peers. Good-Enough Sex provides the opportunity to experience a range of sensual, playful, erotic, and intercourse experiences which will enhance one's sexuality. The ultimate goal of couple sex is relationship intimacy and satisfaction. Teenage and young adult men learn sexual response as an autonomous function—he can experience desire, arousal, and orgasm, needing nothing from his partner. Taking care of one's physical health and body will enhance his/her sexual function and satisfaction. The essence of sexuality is giving and receiving pleasure-oriented touching, which is the foundation of healthy sexual function. In contrast, pressure for perfect sexual performance can poison one's sexual experience.