ABSTRACT
The first stage of the couple work is the ‘impact’ stage and the key therapeutic task is to ensure that there is no further damage to the relationship or the individuals within it. The key tasks of the impact stage are explored in depth, namely commit to self-care, look after family, establish accountability, minimise conflict and agree check-ins. This very practical chapter provides detail on how to set up an accountability contract as well as how to manage both practical and emotional check-ins. Communication advice is offered for minimising conflict and managing the understandably heightened emotions in the early stages after disclosure or discovery.
