ABSTRACT
The emperor Claudius got married four times; his last two wives, Messalina and Agrippina the Younger, are those about whom the most precise information has reached us. However, these spouses are literary figures whose narrative functions are clearly determined by the argumentative context of the sources. What do they teach us about conjugal life in the domus Augusta? When we read the texts against the grain, we find a “marriage discourse” which is exactly the same for the imperial couple as for the couple relationships of contemporary aristocrats: there was simply no alternative model to that which mos and gender discourse had established. Also, the exceptional couple of the emperor and his wife informs us about the expectations and the conditions of ordinary marriages among the Roman elite. However, it cannot be denied that ordinary marriages did not usually end with the violent death of the wife (Messalina) or of the husband (Claudius): this chapter proposes to consider the life of the imperial couple as quite ordinary – the extraordinary is not the marriage life but its socially and politically exceptional conditions.
