ABSTRACT
In this chapter, six core beliefs are presented: 1) the individual is not the disability; 2) many IWDs do not constantly wish to be “cured” or to be “normal”; 3) individuals without disabilities (IWODs) are responsible for their own discomfort when interacting with IWDs; 4) a great deal of prejudice and discrimination comes from nice, well-intentioned people; 5) IWDs experience frequent “little acts of degradation” of which most IWODs are unaware; 6) the little counseling, training, and education currently available have been of little value and, indeed, have often resulted in more prejudice and discrimination. While many of these attitudes and behaviors are well-intentioned, they result in limiting opportunities for IWDs, distancing and isolating IWDs, and socializing IWDs to an inferior position. These attitudes, widely held beliefs, and behaviors must be judged on their results. Since professionals bring their personalities and beliefs to the counseling relationship with IWDs, it is necessary, before developing empathy, that counselors examine and question some of their beliefs about IWDs.
