ABSTRACT

False Bodies, True Selves explores the phenomenon of growing numbers of people in western society and beyond completely embedding their sense of identity in their appearance. Unlike other books which address either theoretical models of appearance-focused identity struggles or explore lived experiences of appearance-based battles, False Bodies delves into both. Importantly, the spiritual aspects of what it is to become enemies with one's body are given centre stage in the context of Donald Winnicott's theory of the true Self and the false Self. The book begins by looking at some of the myths, superstitions and fairy tales related to mirrors before moving on to western society's current obsession with appearance, which seems to have been compounded by the mass media. After looking at some of the most common manifestations of appearance-focused anguish including eating disorders and body dysmorphia, it begins to unpick the possible underlying meanings beneath such struggles with a particular emphasis on issues of a systemic nature.

part I|157 pages

Mirrors and Myths

chapter One|17 pages

Mirrors and misplaced identities

chapter Two|18 pages

Embodiment and perceived ugliness

chapter Three|18 pages

Disturbed selves, disturbed eating

chapter Four|16 pages

Altered appearances, questioned identities

chapter Six|15 pages

Skin: a canvas for self-expression

chapter Seven|19 pages

Shadows of childhood

chapter Eight|17 pages

Embraced emotions

chapter Nine|13 pages

Interlude: processes of sight and perception

part II|57 pages

Spiritual Aspects of Psychological Distress

chapter Ten|17 pages

A mindful return to the body

chapter Eleven|18 pages

Wholeness through an embrace of the darkness

chapter Twelve|19 pages

From false selves to true Selves: returning home