ABSTRACT

In this VBTC which lasts for 25 minutes 32 seconds, M wants help for her feelings of hurt about a friend not supporting her and showing that he cared enough for her when others attacked her integrity. I help her to develop and hold a flexible attitude towards this which would encourage her to try to pin the friend down so that he would account for his lack of support. I also help her to see that while it is important for her to get this statement from him, he does not have to give it. In which case, her flexible attitude towards the resultant lack of (interpersonal) resolution would serve as her (intrapersonal) resolution.