chapter  2
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Deconstructing Monogamy: Boundaries, Identities, and Fluidities across Relationships KATHERINE FRANK AND JOHN DeLAMATER

I’m married and I’m not gonna cheat on my wife. I’ve just come to the decision that looking isn’t cheating . . .

What does faithful even mean, Kate? Does it mean I’m faithful in my mind? Does a one-night stand in a hotel room somewhere mean that I am not faithful to my wife? I am faithful to my wife because I love her and there is no one else I want to share a life with . . .