ABSTRACT

Mr Shen, in his mid-40s, was a public relations consultant working for an

American software company in Beijing. He spoke good English and had

lived overseas numerous times in his life, including a few stints as a visiting

fellow at universities in the US. Still single and considering himself an

infinitely eligible bachelor, he owned an up-market car and an expensive

spacious 150 square metre apartment in a new gated community in

Chaoyang District Beijing. When he found out my research interest in

domestic workers, he offered the information that he had a local baomu (maid) who came once a week for half a day to clean his apartment, do his

laundry and iron his shirts. Shen also mentioned that he did not know his

maid that well, as he was never home while she came to work in his apart-

ment. ‘I am not particularly interested in her private life’. Shen intended to

get married, although he still had not found the right woman – to his

mother’s disappointment. He said that he was ‘easy and relaxed’ about his

future – and imaginary – wife’s option to work or stay at home, but he was

firmly of the view that his wife should not engage in any dirty menial housework.