ABSTRACT

Failure is a theme of great importance in most clinical conditions, and in everyday life, from birth until death. Its impact can be destabilizing, even disastrous. In spite of these facts, there has been no comprehensive psychoanalytic exploration of this topic. Understanding and Coping with Failure: Psychoanalytic Perspectives fills this gap by examining failure from many perspectives. It goes a long way toward increasing understanding of the numerous issues involved, and provides many valuable insights into ways of coping with these challenging experiences and several chapters discuss positive aspects of failure - what can be learned from what would otherwise simply be regrettable experiences.                             

Brent Willock, Rebecca Coleman Curtis and Lori C. Bohm bring together a rich diversity of topics explored in thoughtful ways by an international group of authors from the United Kingdom, Canada, and the United States of America. Failed therapies (which have been examined in the literature) are but one element freshly explored in this comprehensive exploration of the topic. The book is divided into sections covering the following topics: Failing and Forgiving; Society-Wide Failure; Failure in the Family; Therapeutic Failure; Professional Failure in the Consulting Room and on the Career Path; Integrity versus Despair: Facing Failure in the Final Phase of the Life Cycle; Metaphoric Bridges and Creativity; The Long Shadow of Childhood Relational Trauma.

Understanding and Coping with Failure will be eagerly welcomed by all those trying to increase their awareness, understanding, and capacity to work with the many ramifications of this important issue. Because of the uniqueness of this broad, detailed exploration of the complexities of the failure experience, it will be essential reading for psychoanalysts, psychotherapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, counselors, and students in these disciplines. It will also appeal to a wider audience interested in the psychoanalytic perspective.

chapter |6 pages

Introduction

Fail up! Analyzing failures and using them to our advantage

part |15 pages

Failing and Forgiving

chapter |6 pages

Fail Better

chapter |7 pages

Failing with Grace

How a golden thread of forgiveness runs through psychoanalysis

part |32 pages

Society-Wide Failure

chapter |8 pages

Success and Failure

Cultural and psychoanalytic perspectives

chapter |10 pages

Blind Spot in the Analytic Lens

Our failure to address environmental uncertainty

chapter |12 pages

Failing Better

Working through chronic system/personal/treatment failures in psychoanalysis

part |33 pages

Failure in the Family

chapter |8 pages

Whose Report Card is it Anyway?

Helping parents move from empathic failure to empathic attunement

chapter |9 pages

Clutching Defeat from the Jaws of Victory

Failure, self-destruction, and the Icarus myth

part |26 pages

Therapeutic Failure

chapter |8 pages

Dora and the Bathwater

A relational perspective on shame and psychoanalytic failure

part |37 pages

Professional Failure in the Consulting Room and on the Career Path

chapter |6 pages

Whatever Happened?

A clinical evaluation of the relationship between Humpty Dumpty and the wall

chapter |9 pages

Failure to Contain Unbearable Affect

Rupture and e-repair

chapter |9 pages

The Blame Game

Finding attributional balance in failure

part |25 pages

Integrity vs Despair

chapter |8 pages

Failure of the Body

Perseverance of the spirit

chapter |6 pages

Brief Candle

part |25 pages

Metaphoric Bridges and Creativity

chapter |6 pages

Standing Tall

Bodily metaphors in a case of self-defeating personal failure

part |24 pages

The Long Shadow of Childhood Relational Trauma

chapter |9 pages

The Big Hit

How adult illness can recapitulate childhood trauma and fear of failure

part |14 pages

Reflections and Final Words