ABSTRACT
The other angle of this is you are going to say, " G o ahead and do this (x) but you don' t need to do this (y) anymore . " You don' t want to say, " Y o u don't need to hit the kids a n y m o r e " because you don' t want to sound like you are taking choices away. W e have to offer something that he is going to be able to cont inue to do but it's not going to be to hit the kids.
