ABSTRACT
This chapter discusses the spiritual and healing nature of mediation, and explores ways in which mediation can increase healing for parties and the mediator. Mediation is a method of resolving disputes in which a neutral third party assists disputants in listening to one another, discussing potential options for resolution, and negotiating a resolution. Mediation mirrors spirituality in many ways. Spirituality embraces the connectedness of all things, but it also honors and heightens individuality. While a mediation can provide healing to the parties, it can also provide healing to the mediator. In complete resolution, parties come together as they find mutually acceptable ground to walk upon. Meeting separately with the parties before or during mediation can sometimes allow a spiritual connection to develop or re-develop between the mediator and the parties. Connection, empathy, and non-judgment build trust and rapport with parties. Some mediators glance at the St Francis Prayer to quickly shift their attitudes.
