ABSTRACT

How Much is Enough? addresses this important question, looking at the reasons why therapy can go on for too long or can come to a destructively premature ending, and offering advice on how to avoid either, with a timely conclusion. Using vivid examples and practical guidelines, Lesley Murdin examines the theoretical, technical and ethical aspects of endings. She emphasises that it is not only the patient who needs to change if one is to achieve a satisfactory outcome. The therapist must discover the changes in him/herself which are needed to enable an ending in psychotherapy. How Much is Enough? is a unique contribution to therapeutic literature, and will prove invaluable to students and professionals alike.

chapter |11 pages

Introduction

The problem

chapter |11 pages

What Are We Waiting for?

Aims and outcomes

chapter |21 pages

Happy Endings

The goal of resolving transference

chapter |17 pages

Dealing With Illusions

Narcissism and endings

chapter |19 pages

Staying Alive

The patient's unilateral ending

chapter |17 pages

Time To Go

The therapist ends

chapter |20 pages

What is Truth?

Values and valuing endings

chapter |16 pages

Ends and Means

The ethics of ending

chapter |16 pages

Endgame

Last sessions

chapter |11 pages

In My Beginning is My End

The time-limited solution

chapter |1 pages

The Good Ending