ABSTRACT

Why Love Matters explains why love is essential to brain development in the early years of life, particularly to the development of our social and emotional brain systems, and presents the startling discoveries that provide the answers to how our emotional lives work.

Sue Gerhardt considers how the earliest relationship shapes the baby's nervous system, with lasting consequences, and how our adult life is influenced by infancy despite our inability to remember babyhood. She shows how the development of the brain can affect future emotional well being, and goes on to look at specific early 'pathways' that can affect the way we respond to stress and lead to conditions such as anorexia, addiction, and anti-social behaviour.

Why Love Matters is a lively and very accessible interpretation of the latest findings in neuroscience, psychology, psychoanalysis and biochemistry. It will be invaluable to psychotherapists and psychoanalysts, mental health professionals, parents and all those concerned with the central importance of brain development in relation to many later adult difficulties.

chapter |10 pages

Introduction

part |2 pages

PART 1 The foundations: babies and their brains

chapter 1|19 pages

Back to the beginning

chapter 2|24 pages

Building a brain

chapter 3|29 pages

Corrosive cortisol

chapter |2 pages

Conclusion to Part 1

chapter |6 pages

PART 2

Shaky foundations and their consequences

chapter 4|19 pages

Trying not to feel

The links between early emotional regulation and the immune system

chapter 5|21 pages

Melancholy baby

How early experience can alter brain chemistry, leading to adult depression

chapter 6|16 pages

Active harm

The links between trauma in babyhood and trauma in adult life

chapter 7|18 pages

Torment

The links between personality disorders and early experience

chapter 8|26 pages

Original sin

How babies who are treated harshly may not develop empathy for others

part |2 pages

PART 3 Too much information, not enough solutions Where do we go from here?

chapter 9|12 pages

‘If all else fails, hug your teddybear’

Repairing the damage

chapter 10|12 pages

Birth of the future