ABSTRACT

The Edge of Sex is an anthology of voices from the margins, bringing together 37 writers to discuss their experiences of sex and sex education in America.

The anthology explores often overlooked and excluded identities, with pieces on sexuality and disabilities, survivors of assault, sex work as women of color, kink and BDSM, being Muslim and queer, reproductive rights, and the challenges of culture and identity when grappling with gender fluidity and gendered expectations. As they trace the negative effects of a restrictive, fear-based sex education – particularly on marginalized individuals – these stories unearth larger themes: tensions with race and religion, expectations from heteronormative society, and pressures of femininity and masculinity. Importantly, they also highlight the resilience and empowerment of marginalized individuals within a culture designed to ostracize them.

The rich, diverse, and intersectional stories of The Edge of Sex paint a contextualized picture of sex education and make an urgent case for better representation and more inclusive, consistent, and comprehensive content. By reading this anthology, casual readers may learn more about their sexual selves, clinicians can apply the material to their practices with clients, and educators and students can expand their knowledge of feminist theory, intersectional theory, queer theory, and sex education.

chapter 1|23 pages

Introduction

chapter 3|10 pages

My Cultural Balancing Act

BySV

chapter 4|6 pages

Don’t Fear Failure

chapter 5|12 pages

My Menses Are Magnanimous

chapter 6|7 pages

It Takes a Village

Discovering My Identity Amidst Cultures of Confusion

chapter 8|7 pages

Black Girl Lost

Navigating the Intersections of Race, Gender, Religion, and Sexuality

chapter 9|6 pages

Lavender Linguistics

Why Words Matter

chapter 10|12 pages

Your Reproductive Health Is Not Our Concern

A Lifetime of Medical Gaslighting

chapter 11|4 pages

Quentin and Pearl

chapter 12|6 pages

Pillow Talk

chapter 13|10 pages

Learning to Love

Sexuality, Communication, and Heartbreak

chapter 14|8 pages

From “Doing It” to Breaking the Binary

How I Figured Out What the Hell My Gender and Sexuality Are

chapter 15|11 pages

Chapters

chapter 16|8 pages

Earning My Name

chapter 17|8 pages

“How Cute”

chapter 18|7 pages

Brown Sugar Baby

chapter 21|12 pages

Are You a Boy or a Girl? No

chapter 22|12 pages

October 16th, 2011 4:00am. Good Girls Don’t Do That

Reclamation After Violence

chapter 24|8 pages

On Why I Went Upstairs

chapter 27|8 pages

Down the Rabbit Hole

chapter 28|8 pages

The Contours of Breath

chapter 29|10 pages

Fundamentals

chapter 30|6 pages

On Love Without Limits

chapter 31|11 pages

Snapshots

chapter 32|14 pages

Selfish

chapter 33|8 pages

My Journey to Sex Education

chapter 35|5 pages

Erotophobia

The Fear of Sex

chapter 36|8 pages

Tease