ABSTRACT

This important and wide-ranging book explores the world of a child or young person who has been abused or neglected. It seeks to understand their world, to ease the pain from which they suffer, and to heal the wounds that the abuse has left.

Examining how abuse always takes place in the context of relationships, and involves a misuse of power that causes a traumatic overwhelming of the child or adolescent, abuse also evokes strong countertransference. This affects interventions, particularly when clinicians struggle with feelings of which they may feel ashamed. A difficulty in coming to terms with and addressing child abuse relates to unconscious factors which, by freezing the emotional area surrounding the abuse (or by blinding the area of personality), makes some thoughts unthinkable.

Considering traditional and novel ways of helping children who feel they have been maltreated, the book offers suggestions for individual treatment as well as describing the successful work carried out with child refugees. It also offers a glimpse into what child psychoanalysts interpret and do with children who feel a parent hates them.

chapter |6 pages

Introduction

part I|2 pages

Mainly clinical

chapter 4|12 pages

Todd

The analysis of a latency-aged boy who self-harmed

chapter 5|10 pages

The abused child – a sad, never-ending story

Some observations on abused children in the current refugee crisis

chapter 6|9 pages

The making of an abuser

chapter 7|10 pages

The lost child

chapter 8|9 pages

When something that should happen does not

The unwelcome child and his psychic vicissitudes

part II|2 pages

Protecting the care systems to prevent burnout

chapter 10|8 pages

All in the same boat

The activity of the Abuse and Ill-Treatment Group

chapter 11|7 pages

Abused children

Reflections on the model

chapter 13|11 pages

Abused children, caregivers, psychoanalysts – voices from the groups

Reflections on the model and its use

chapter 14|5 pages

What happens to pain

The evolution of the request

part III|2 pages

Legal aspects

chapter 16|6 pages

Protecting the child and assessing the evidence

Task and role of the judiciary in child abuse