ABSTRACT

A respected medical professional, family man, and keen athlete, Andrew Tillyard had a full and active life until a vehicle crash changed it all. He sustained a serious head injury and was airlifted to the hospital where he worked, having only just survived. In this book, he recounts the raw, uncompromising struggles he faced to rebuild his life.

Drawing from regular blog entries written throughout his rehabilitation, Andrew provides an authentic reflection of the lived experience at some of the key stages along the road to recovery, from pragmatic concerns about new daily difficulties to wider concerns about his new place in life. He highlights the specific challenges and support he encountered as a person with a medical background who finds themselves in a healthcare system as a patient. With frank honesty, he takes readers beyond the simple message that things can and do improve, by demonstrating that negativity, bitterness, and occasional rage are all necessary parts of the journey. However, he also describes the many little victories that helped him keep battling on, knowing there is always hope for the future. In particular, he narrates how he learnt to do things the doctors said he would never do: walking, reading, running, and ultimately writing this book. With the perspective of ten years since his injury, the book also charts a longer-term view of the ebb and flow of recovery.

This is essential reading for neuropsychologists, neurologists, and other rehabilitation therapists, as well as students in medicine, nursing, allied health, and neuropsychology. This is also a compelling and compassionate story for anyone who has survived a brain injury, who feels – as Andrew did at times – that life might not be worth living anymore, as it can show that there is always hope for the future.

chapter |4 pages

Introduction

chapter 1|10 pages

How I Acquired My Brain Injury

The Triathlon

chapter 2|11 pages

How I Coped Dealing with Carers

Living Life with the Scarers

chapter 3|13 pages

How I Started to Find Inspiration After My Brain Injury

The Pathetic Limping Tillyard Charity

chapter 5|9 pages

How Hard Work Helped My Mental Recovery Process

Life v2.0

chapter 6|9 pages

How I Learned to Live A Life of Compromise After Brain Injury

Life in Falifornia!

chapter 7|12 pages

How Trauma Makes Us Reinvent Ourselves

Surviving Death by a Thousand Cuts

chapter 8|13 pages

How I Proved That Almost Anything Is Possible After Brain Injury

Advantage Tillyard!

chapter 9|9 pages

How to Go on Living A Life of Value After Trauma

It Takes a Village

chapter 10|11 pages

How to Find True Love and Happiness After Brain Injury?

The Rule of Thirds