ABSTRACT

We think of cults as bizarre, inexplicable, or otherworldly places that only strange people inhabit, but cults and other abusive and high-demand groups (and relationships) are actually quite commonplace. In fact, the behaviors, social pressures, and authoritarian structures that create cults exist to a greater or lesser extent in every human relationship and every human group.

In the first in-depth research of its kind, the author interviewed sixty-five people who were born in or grew up in thirty-nine different cultic groups spanning more than a dozen countries. What’s especially interesting about these individuals is that they each left the cult on their own, without outside help or internal support. In Escaping Utopia: Growing Up in a Cult, Getting Out, and Starting Over, the authors craft Lalich’s original and groundbreaking research into an accessible and engaging book, the first of its kind focusing on this particular population.

chapter |9 pages

Introduction

chapter 1|19 pages

We Weren’t There by Choice

Meeting Our Narrators

chapter 2|12 pages

The Transcendent Belief System

Purity, Perfection, and the Eradication of Individuality

chapter 3|20 pages

Charismatic Authority

Exhilarating Vision, Electrifying Charisma, and Total Domination

chapter 4|22 pages

Systems of Control

Official Rules, Formal Structures, and Webs of Authority

chapter 5|21 pages

Systems of Influence

Social Pressures, Rigid Expectations, and Constant Manipulation

chapter 6|21 pages

Landing on Mars

Finding Their Way in an Alien World

chapter 7|18 pages

Surviving and Thriving

Trauma, Resilience, and Integration