ABSTRACT

In Beyond Doer and Done To, Jessica Benjamin, author of the path-breaking Bonds of Love, expands her theory of mutual recognition and its breakdown into the complementarity of "doer and done to." Her innovative theory charts the growth of the Third in early development through the movement between recognition and breakdown, and shows how it parallels the enactments in the psychoanalytic relationship. Benjamin’s recognition theory illuminates the radical potential of acknowledgment in healing both individual and social trauma, in creating relational repair in the transformational space of thirdness. Benjamin’s unique formulations of intersubjectivity make essential reading for both psychoanalytic therapists and theorists in the humanities and social sciences.

chapter |20 pages

Introduction

Recognition, intersubjectivity and the Third

chapter Chapter 1|28 pages

Beyond doer and done to

An intersubjective view of thirdness

chapter Chapter 2|22 pages

Our appointment in Thebes

Acknowledgment, the failed witness and fear of harming

chapter Chapter 3|40 pages

Transformations in thirdness

Mutual recognition, vulnerability and asymmetry

chapter Chapter 4|32 pages

An Other take on the riddle of sex

Excess, affect and gender complementarity

chapter Chapter 5|37 pages

Paradox and play

The uses of enactment

chapter Chapter 6|34 pages

Playing at the edge

Negation, recognition and the lawful world

chapter Chapter 7|34 pages

Beyond “Only one can live”

Witnessing, acknowledgment and the moral Third