ABSTRACT

Helping the Suicidal Person provides a highly practical toolbox for mental health professionals. The book first covers the need for professionals to examine their own personal experiences and fears around suicide, moves into essential areas of risk assessment, safety planning, and treatment planning, and then provides a rich assortment of tips for reducing the person’s suicidal danger and rebuilding the wish to live. The techniques described in the book can be interspersed into any type of therapy, no matter what the professional’s theoretical orientation is and no matter whether it’s the client’s first, tenth, or one-hundredth session. Clinicians don’t need to read this book in any particular order, or even read all of it. Open the book to any page, and find a useful tip or technique that can be applied immediately.

chapter |4 pages

Introduction

chapter Chapter 1|19 pages

Understanding Suicide and You

section Tip 1|3 pages

Reflect on Your Biases about Suicide

section Tip 2|4 pages

Take Stock of Your Experiences with Suicide (or Lack Thereof)

section Tip 3|3 pages

Confront “Suicide Anxiety”

section Tip 4|3 pages

Be Alert to Negative Feelings Toward the Suicidal Person

section Tip 5|2 pages

Reject the Savior Role

section Tip 6|3 pages

Maintain Hope

chapter Chapter 2|19 pages

Overcoming the Taboo

section Tip 7|3 pages

Face Your Fears

section Tip 8|3 pages

Directly Ask about Suicidal Thoughts

section Tip 9|4 pages

Turn to Techniques for Eliciting Sensitive Information

section Tip 10|3 pages

Embrace a Narrative Approach: “Suicidal Storytelling”

section Tip 11|2 pages

Ask about Suicidal Imagery, Too

section Tip 12|3 pages

Uncover Fears of Hospitalization and Other Obstacles to Disclosure

chapter Chapter 3|14 pages

Joining with the Suicidal Person

section Tip 13|2 pages

Recognize that, for Some People, You are an Enemy

section Tip 14|3 pages

Avoid Coercion and Control Whenever Possible

section Tip 15|2 pages

Resist the Urge to Persuade or Offer Advice

section Tip 16|2 pages

Understand the Person’s Reasons for Dying

section Tip 17|2 pages

Validate the Wish to Die

section Tip 18|2 pages

Acknowledge that Suicide is an Option

chapter Chapter 4|24 pages

Assessing Danger

section Tip 19|6 pages

Gather Remaining Essentials about Suicidal Thoughts and Behavior

section Tip 20|2 pages

Learn About Prior Suicidal Crises: The CASE Approach

section Tip 21|3 pages

Cautiously Use Standardized Questionnaires

section Tip 22|3 pages

Privilege Warning Signs Over Risk Factors

section Tip 23|2 pages

Screen for Access to Firearms

section Tip 24|2 pages

Inquire about Internet Use

section Tip 25|2 pages

Probe for Homicidal Ideation

section Tip 26|3 pages

Collect Information from Family, Professionals, and Others

chapter Chapter 5|12 pages

Assessing Protective and Cultural Factors

section Tip 27|2 pages

Examine Reasons for Living

section Tip 28|2 pages

Identify Other Protective Factors

section Tip 29|4 pages

Pay Attention to Culture

section Tip 30|3 pages

Investigate Religious and Spiritual Views of Suicide

chapter Chapter 6|15 pages

Putting It All Together

Estimating Risk

section Tip 31|1 pages

Solicit the Person’s Own Assessment of Suicide Risk

section Tip 32|4 pages

Estimate Acute Risk for Suicide

section Tip 33|3 pages

Estimate Chronic Risk for Suicide

section Tip 34|6 pages

Document Generously

chapter Chapter 7|29 pages

Attending to Immediate Safety

section Tip 35|3 pages

Know When and Why to Pursue Hospitalization

section Tip 36|3 pages

Know When and Why Not to Pursue Hospitalization

section Tip 37|3 pages

Do Not Use a No-Suicide Contract

section Tip 38|5 pages

Collaboratively Develop a Safety Plan

section Tip 39|2 pages

Encourage Delay

section Tip 40|4 pages

Problem-Solve Around Access to Firearms

section Tip 41|2 pages

Discuss Access to Other Means for Suicide, Too

section Tip 42|3 pages

In Case of Terminal Illness, Proceed Differently (Perhaps)

section Tip 43|3 pages

Seek Consultation

chapter Chapter 8|18 pages

Planning for Treatment

section Tip 44|2 pages

Make Suicidality the Focus

section Tip 45|3 pages

As Needed, Increase Frequency of Contact

section Tip 46|3 pages

Treat Chronic Suicidality Differently

section Tip 47|2 pages

Involve Loved Ones

section Tip 48|2 pages

Suggest a Physical Exam

section Tip 49|2 pages

Recommend an Evaluation for Medication

section Tip 50|3 pages

Continue to Monitor Suicidal Ideation

chapter Chapter 9|13 pages

Alleviating Psychological Pain

section Tip 51|3 pages

After Safety, Address Suffering

section Tip 52|3 pages

Look for Unmet Needs

section Tip 53|3 pages

Target Social Isolation

section Tip 54|3 pages

Use Grounding Exercises

chapter Chapter 10|11 pages

Exploring Motivations and Misgivings

section Tip 55|2 pages

Assume Nothing: Does the Person Want to Give Up Suicide?

section Tip 56|2 pages

Tap into Ambivalence

section Tip 57|2 pages

Compare Reasons for Living and Dying

section Tip 58|2 pages

Invite the Person to Look for the “Catch”

section Tip 59|2 pages

Search for Exceptions

chapter Chapter 11|15 pages

Inspiring Hope

section Tip 60|1 pages

Frame Suicide as a Problem-Solving Behavior

section Tip 61|3 pages

Help Brainstorm an “Options List”

section Tip 62|2 pages

Teach the Problem-Solving Method

section Tip 63|3 pages

Nourish Future Plans and Goals

section Tip 64|3 pages

Incorporate a Hope Kit

section Tip 65|2 pages

Highlight Strengths

chapter Chapter 12|23 pages

Drawing from Cognitive Behavior Strategies

section Tip 66|3 pages

Connect Suicidal Thoughts to Other Thinking

section Tip 67|4 pages

Educate about Cognitive Distortions

section Tip 68|5 pages

Help Challenge Negative Thoughts

section Tip 69|2 pages

Elicit Coping Statements

section Tip 70|3 pages

Rescript Suicidal Imagery

section Tip 71|2 pages

Discourage Thought Suppression

section Tip 72|3 pages

Foster Acceptance of Suicidal Thoughts

chapter Chapter 13|16 pages

Improving Quality of Life

section Tip 73|3 pages

Enhance Coping Skills

section Tip 74|4 pages

Cultivate Mindfulness

section Tip 75|4 pages

“Broaden and Build” Positive Emotions

section Tip 76|4 pages

Pair Behavioral Activation with Values

chapter Chapter 14|19 pages

Moving Forward After a Suicide Attempt

section Tip 77|2 pages

Differentiate Between Suicidal and Non-Suicidal Self-Injury

section Tip 78|2 pages

Determine the Person’s Reaction to Having Survived

section Tip 79|3 pages

Conduct a Chain Analysis

section Tip 80|2 pages

Evaluate Where the Safety Plan Fell Short

section Tip 81|2 pages

Take Advantage of the “Teachable Moment”

section Tip 82|3 pages

Attend to the Therapeutic Relationship

section Tip 83|2 pages

Address the Trauma of the Suicide Attempt

section Tip 84|2 pages

Explore Shame and Stigma

chapter Chapter 15|12 pages

Building Resilience

section Tip 85|1 pages

Warn about the Possibility of Relapse

section Tip 86|2 pages

Review Lessons Learned

section Tip 87|3 pages

Complete a Relapse Prevention Protocol

section Tip 88|2 pages

Propose a Letter to the Suicidal Self

section Tip 89|3 pages

Follow Up

chapter |1 pages

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