ABSTRACT

Love and hate seem to be the dominant emotions that make the world go round and are a central theme in psychotherapy. Love and Hate seeks to answer some important questions about these all consuming passions. Many patients seeking psychotherapy feel unlovable or full of rage and hate. What is it that interferes with the capacity to experience love? This book explores the origins of love and hate from infancy and how they develop through the life cycle. It brings together contemporary views about clinical practice on how psychotherapists and analysts work with and think about love and hate in the transference and countertransference and explores how different schools of thought deal with the subject. David Mann, together with an impressive array of international contributors represent a broad spectrum of psychoanalytic perspectives, including Kleinian, Jungian, Independent Group, and Lacanian, psychotherapists, psychoanalysts and analytical psychologists.
With emphasis on clinical illustration throughout, the writers show how different psychoanalytic schools think about and clinically work with the experience and passions of love and hate. It will be invaluable to practitioners and students of psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, analytical psychology and counselling.

chapter |27 pages

Introduction: The desire for love and hate

(By way of a poetic polemic)

part I|115 pages

More about love than hate

chapter Chapter 1|22 pages

In search of love and hate

chapter Chapter 2|15 pages

Love

Paradox of self and other

chapter Chapter 3|18 pages

The capacity for love

chapter Chapter 7|19 pages

Freeing Eros in the playroom of therapy. The interface of hate and love

Sexualisation, abstinence and ‘celibate' countertransference 1

part II|153 pages

More about hate than love

chapter Chapter 9|22 pages

Misanthropy and the broken mirror of narcissism

Hatred in the narcissistic personality

chapter Chapter 12|15 pages

‘When love begins to play a role, there are only disputes and hatred’

Confusion and limits in the treatment of a narcissistic patient

chapter Chapter 13|15 pages

No one to hold the baby

The traumatised individual's incapacity to love

chapter Chapter 14|17 pages

The love/hate couple in the primal scene

The problem of dyads and triads in relationship therapy

chapter Chapter 15|14 pages

Love and hate

A fusion of opposites – a window to the soul

chapter Chapter 16|17 pages

Following in the footsteps of Ferenczi, Balint and Winnicott

Love and hate in a setting open to body- and action-related interventions

chapter Chapter 17|14 pages

Love, hate and violation