ABSTRACT

This handbook for professionals presents an array of techniques for teaching and reinforcing social skills for successful relationships. It contains over 70 new structured exercises that can be used to help individuals, dyads, families, and groups become happier in their relationships. The exercises come complete with step-by-step instructions for easy use. Structured Exercises for Promoting Family and Group Strengths is a goldmine of resources for group leaders and counselors. You can use it in planning and conducting workshops and retreats or for working with individuals or families in counseling. The book saves you time and energy as each exercise is accompanied by suggestions for procedures, variations, and trainer's notes. The exercises, which have all been field tested with a variety of audiences, are grouped into six broad categories:

  • Icebreakers introduce people to the subject of group dynamics and to each other in a workshop setting.
  • Assessors help people assess relationships and gain insight for constructive change.
  • Dyad/couple discussion starters facilitate communication and open dialogue for dyads who find themselves in dysfunctional situations.
  • Group/family discussion starters strengthen communication within groups or families and increase understanding of how the group functions.
  • Enhancers aid in the development of positive regard of self and others.
  • Energizers perk up the group or family when fatigue occurs.
The exercises provide an experiential approach to learning in which each participant is actively and creatively involved. Readers will find that these relationship-enhancing exercises offer a catalyst for dramatic change in the lives of individuals, dyads, families, and groups. Structured Exercises for Promoting Family and Group Strengths is a valuable sourcebook of ideas for use by persons in the helping professions, including counselors, psychologists, marriage and family therapists, social workers, chaplains, corrections officers, and educators.<

chapter |2 pages

Introduction

chapter 1|46 pages

Icebreakers

chapter 1|5 pages

How Perceptive Are You?

chapter 2|2 pages

My Famous Person

chapter 3|2 pages

A Positive Beginning

chapter 4|2 pages

The Beauty of Others

chapter 5|4 pages

Getting to the Root!

chapter 6|3 pages

Initial Feelings

chapter 7|3 pages

Are You More Like …

chapter 9|2 pages

What I Did Well

chapter 10|4 pages

Mirroring Yourself to Others

chapter 11|4 pages

Cheers !

chapter 12|4 pages

Life Crest

chapter 2|49 pages

Assessors

chapter 14|4 pages

Charting Your Actions

chapter 15|4 pages

Relationship Value Profile

chapter 16|5 pages

Dyad Assessment

Accelerator and Brake

chapter 18|5 pages

Fighting Patterns

chapter 19|2 pages

What Is Important?

chapter 20|3 pages

Taking Your Vital Signs

chapter 22|3 pages

Let's Make a Picture

chapter 23|3 pages

Dyad Format

chapter 25|3 pages

Circle of Power

chapter 26|3 pages

Dyad Dialogue

chapter 27|2 pages

Turning a Quiet Trick

chapter 28|3 pages

The Song of Relationships

chapter 29|3 pages

Sexual Myth Deflator Exercise

chapter 30|2 pages

Close Encounters

chapter 31|3 pages

Dreaming

chapter 32|2 pages

Say It Softly So I Can Hear You

chapter 33|2 pages

Quiet Reflections

chapter 34|3 pages

Wisdom of the Aged

chapter 35|2 pages

Why Do I Love You?

chapter 36|4 pages

Backtracking

chapter 37|8 pages

Teaching Pictures

chapter 38|5 pages

Rules

chapter 39|3 pages

Mixer

chapter 40|3 pages

Working Toward a Goal

The Processes

chapter 41|3 pages

Blending Together

chapter 44|4 pages

Sorting Out Priorities

chapter 45|3 pages

New Traditions

chapter 46|3 pages

Wants!

chapter 47|6 pages

Promoting Intimacy

chapter 48|2 pages

A Moment for Planning

chapter 49|2 pages

Story Writing

chapter 50|2 pages

Alternatives Search

chapter 51|2 pages

What I Meant Was …

chapter 52|2 pages

The Hunt

chapter 5|46 pages

Enhancers

chapter 54|5 pages

Signals Bingo

chapter 55|4 pages

Facial Massage

chapter 56|5 pages

Positive Affirmation

chapter 57|3 pages

Leisure Coat of Arms

chapter 58|5 pages

If I Could, I Would…

chapter 59|2 pages

Treasure Box

chapter 60|2 pages

Connections

chapter 61|2 pages

Magic Box

Increasing Leisure Activities

chapter 62|2 pages

If I Had a Hammer, I'd Hammer

chapter 63|4 pages

Choices

chapter 6|29 pages

Energizers

chapter 64|3 pages

Ways I Want to Grow

chapter 65|3 pages

Look Alike

chapter 66|5 pages

The Timer Method

chapter 67|2 pages

Values for All Humankind

chapter 68|3 pages

Four Comers

chapter 69|2 pages

Expanding Skills

Personal Growth

chapter 70|2 pages

Repertoire of Songs

chapter 71|3 pages

What Kind of Person Are You?