ABSTRACT
The theme of uncertainty continues by discussing how couples prepare for living together and how they negotiate their differences, especially minor habits and behaviours. The way power is expressed in relationships is also explored, with advice about how to achieve more balance. How to get what you need by direct negotiation rather than covert manipulation is also addressed. Some specific tools – such as use of a Happy Hour or I Want-I Will Book – are explained. Management of social media, avoiding nagging and blame are tackled, with advice and exercises to help readers identify ways to escape negative relationship dynamics. The chapter concludes by examining the experience of couples with cultural differences and where one has Asperger syndrome.
