ABSTRACT
African Americans are not only a distinct racial group, but are also a distinct cultural group inside the borders of the United States. Tracing their history in the United States from slavery to the present time, Kelly and Shelton observe that African Americans have been alienated from their traditional roots and are faced with a myriad of challenges to their sexuality and their relationships, not the least of which is the portrayal of African Americans in the media. African Americans differ from European Americans in many ways that are detailed in this chapter, including notions of beauty, fidelity, masculinity, family, and religion. The discrimination that many African Americans face is a vital difference in that it adds additional strain on families, relationships, and individual self-esteem.
Illustrated with the case of a couple dealing with infidelity, the authors describe how to tailor treatment to African Americans, drawing upon knowledge of the historical and current realities and myths about African American sexuality. The importance of communicating respect and affirming the positive in African American clients and couples is emphasized. Improving the couple’s sexual relationship while addressing communication, trust, the need for excitement, and a revised masculine identity are all highlighted.
Therapists working in the United States will want to read this chapter to gain competence in working with African Americans. But the value of this chapter extends to therapists who want to understand the challenges of working with any strongly identified minority group, especially those that have a rather ambivalent relationship with the larger or more predominant culture.
