ABSTRACT

Can married sex be erotic? We hope we successfully answered that question in chapter 10, “Making It Special: Creating Erotic Scenarios.” Can marriage remain erotic? Not only can it, but it is in your best interest to maintain an erotic marriage. Much of this book has focused on intimacy, nondemand pleasuring, and bridges to sexual desire. Intimacy, anticipation, touch, and pleasure are the bedrock for maintaining gains. However, they are not enough for arousal and orgasm. Eroticism is integral to sexual satisfaction and relapse prevention.