ABSTRACT

This chapter focuses on the central question that relates to the extent to which the state should intervene in family life and seek to promote strong couple relationships. Couples have indicated that what they do not need is patronising, morally driven, paternalistic interference but straightforward advice and information on which informed choices can be made. Social interdependence and a two-way relationship between families and the state requires governments to manage separate interests within the complex rules of personal, family relations, and to uphold children's rights and those of all family members. Modern partnerships demand a high degree of personal maturity and good communication and negotiation skills. Moreover, the increased freedoms inherent within conjugal relationships in Western societies often conflict with the constraints and challenges inherent in parenthood. The coalition government committed funding for relationship support services between 2011 and 2015 with a view to encouraging couples to seek help before relationships deteriorate to the point of no return.