ABSTRACT
This chapter discusses the development of psychoanalytic ideas and their application particularly to couple therapy. It highlights the contribution of Henry Dicks, and focuse on to the later contributions of others from both sides of the Atlantic. Dependence can be threatening and vulnerability may be defended against intrapsychically by being projected into a partner or child. Alternatively, partners can be stuck in an excessively dependent relationship which imposes a limitation on independent action and autonomy. The chapter considers some of the relevant theories relating to couple psychotherapy, beginning with Henry Dicks. From his work with couples, Dicks was able to describe two common marital pairings. In the pairing, the parental models are repressed. Dicks is hypothesising that idealisation will inevitably result in difficulties in the relationship. In the case of Martin and Frances, idealisation broke down, probably after the birth of the children, when Frances struggled to adjust to motherhood.
