ABSTRACT
Intimacy is both an elusive and sought after factor in relationships. The foundation and the structure of the relationship reside in the capacity for intimacy, the struggle to attain it, and the intrinsic anxiety associated with having it and losing it. Individuals “learn” a comfortability and/or an anxiety/shame associated with intimacy from interactions that take place in family of origin settings. Starting with the premise that the client’s self-discovery will neutralize resistance and be more enduring as a self-creation than an interpretation by the therapist, a reliable tool for encouraging self-discovery, in uncovering such patterns, is desirable and helpful. A consideration of the arrangement of symbols presented in Betty’s drawing offers clues as to the dynamics that existed in Betty’s family of origin. Betty had continued her education on a part time basis through her child-raising years resulting in both her bachelor degree and a master’s degree.
