ABSTRACT

Family relationships are by nature complicated, especially those between

parents and children. While much has been talked and written about the

relationship between mothers and daughters, that between fathers and daughters

has received comparatively less attention, although it is equally complex and

has as many significant consequences. It is also tempting to assume that fathering

in general is a neglected subject, but this is not altogether true. As Lewis points

out,1 a number of accounts of fathering have been written during the last few

decades, and each one similarly points out the previous paucity of work in the

field and lays claim to be filling the gap. Much of what has been written about the

father-child relationship comes from the United States.2 The focus of such literature

has tended to be the general role of fathers within the family. Where specific

relationships with sons and daughters have been considered separately, it is usually

in the context of sex-role development from a psychoanalytical, psychological or

sociological perspective. In introducing a British anthology of women talking

about their fathers in 1983, Ursula Owen3 similarly questioned why there was so

little work on fathers and daughters, and ten years later the situation has not

significantly changed. One subject concerned with the father-daughter relationship

that has, however, received attention in both the United States and Britain is the

rise in reports of incest and other kinds of child abuse. This has stimulated research,

literature and the establishment of advice agencies and helplines.