ABSTRACT
When I spend time with others who are struggling with their loss, I will experience the frustration of knowing that I cannot change their loss into non-loss. As I see my loss reflected in how they are talking about theirs, I can see their pain and in helping them to bear their pain, I can begin to bear my own. I then see the pain and grief for what they are, and in naming the pain and grief, I can become more free.
