The sexually normal male has voluntary control over his ejaculatory reflex. Normal voluntary control does not mean being able to bang away at full speed for hours until his partner comes. No man can do that unless he suffers from the opposite problem, retarded ejaculation * Adequate ejaculatory control refers to a reasonable degree of voluntary control which allows a man to continue to thrust while he is at a high level of pleasure and arousal, until he chooses to “let go” and come. Sometimes he may want an exciting “quickie” and 6will enjoy reaching his climax in a minute or two. Other times he may decide to make the pleasure last for five, 10, even 15 minutes. Sometimes men may wish to wait until their partners reach orgasm, and other times they may feel like following their own rhythm, perhaps stimulating their lovers to climax before or after intercourse.