ABSTRACT
In the context of this book, the term “interpersonal relations” denotes relations between a few, usually between two, people. How one person thinks and feels about another person, how he perceives him and what he does to him, what he expects him to do or think, how he reacts to the actions of the other—these are some of the phenomena that will be treated. Our concern will be with “surface” matters, the events that occur in everyday life on a conscious level, rather than with the unconscious processes studied by psychoanalysis in “depth” psychology. These intuitively understood and “obvious” human relations can, as we shall see, be just as challenging and psychologically significant as the deeper and stranger phenomena.
