ABSTRACT
Play therapists need to set limits that will help children feel safe and learn to develop behaviors that will allow expression of self in appropriate ways. Child counselors do not always agree on when to set limits. Even among child-centered play therapy (CCPT) therapists, there are different views on when limit setting is introduced. Cochran, Nordling, and Cochran suggested that a play therapist initially convey that there might be a need to set a limit. There are a few aspects of limit setting that need to be addressed in order to create the most successful scenario. A calm tone of voice is essential. One of the main reasons why the ultimate limit is sparsely used in CCPT is because it represents a break in the relationship. The therapist will be separating from the child in an abrupt and unplanned way, possibly causing harm in the therapeutic relationship.
