ABSTRACT
The traditional sexual focus was on arousal, intercourse, and orgasm. This was viewed as the essence of male sexuality. Scientifically, this is not a good understanding. The new mantra for healthy male and couple sexuality is desire/pleasure/eroticism/satisfaction. Desire and satisfaction are more important than intercourse and orgasm. Be aware that the essence of couple sexuality is giving and receiving pleasure-oriented touching, not an individual sex performance. Sexuality is about sharing pleasure and eroticism, not proving something to yourself or your partner.
