ABSTRACT
This chapter focuses on common statements that are made to grieving people but are typically not helpful. Some of these are empty sentiments that provide little comfort, while others can be perceived as insensitive or outright insulting. Most of them trigger anxiety, fear, and sadness. While the intention behind these comments may be good, the person in mourning may not receive the message of caring and empathy. In addition to listing these remarks, the material in this chapter offers explanations to demonstrate how and why a vulnerable child may misinterpret meanings. This section reiterates the need to express support and concern, not give advice or assurances that are unwelcome or unfounded.
