ABSTRACT
The ability to create optimal sexual experiences had developed over their lives, and many believed that a combination of life experiences, their personal attributes and their choices had contributed to a steady improvement in the quality of their sexual experiences over time. Self-awareness is often an early step on the road to cultivating magnificent sex. From developing a better understanding of oneself, continually refining this knowledge and being willing to move forward, it becomes possible to make better choices in terms of experiences and partners. Sometimes, in addition to the qualities and attributes, individuals would offer examples of their particular preferences for sexual partners. Creativity, a sense of humour and imagination were qualities that were considered highly desirable in a partner. One man said that he particularly enjoyed being able to see someone’s “inner child”, and felt that such a person would have a greater capacity for playfulness and spontaneity.
