ABSTRACT
For many, the first steps along the path towards optimal sexual experiences involved unlearning much of what they previously thought they knew about sex and sexuality. Some reported early experiences of sexual, emotional and/or physical abuse perpetrated by family members or early partners. A few also described sexual assaults that were often followed by unsupportive reactions from family, friends and/or professionals. Even for those who had escaped harsh, negative messages or traumatic sexual events, the messages conveyed by mainstream Western media regarding sex, sexuality and great sex are often problematic. In some cases, meeting a special person triggered the process of letting go and overcoming negative messages. With the guidance and support of loving partners, it became possible to explore one’s self and one’s sexuality, and to discover and develop important personal qualities. The journey towards magnificent sex was a long one for many people.
