ABSTRACT

The busyness of life makes it easy to fall into a rut where sex is the last thing that happens at night, after everything else is done, except when there is too much to do and then sex is the first thing to go. One of the ways to prioritize sex is simply to do it first so if something gets squeezed out at the end of the day, then at least it is not that time together. Scheduling sex tends to work best for couples who are generally getting along well, there are no significant sexual problems, and both people would like to have sex more regularly. Otherwise, it may just be a set-up for pressure and/or disappointment. As much as sex is a physical act, it’s obviously also very much a mental one that requires the right mindset. The couples who keep having sex are the couples who keep having sex.