ABSTRACT
It’s hard to write a book about sex without a chapter on porn. Despite all the controversy, most people use porn responsibly, but romantic partners still need to agree about it. Women are increasingly using porn also and there is more and more porn being made to appeal to women. Porn sites have no interest in risking major legal problems for posting clearly illegal videos. Part of the problem with the controversy around porn use is that when people talk about porn, several other issues gets blended together, which makes for a messy and probably unproductive conversation. Poor sex ed and incomplete sexual literacy makes porn the biggest source of information about sex for most people. Since sex in porn is being filmed, it makes some positions more conducive or necessary than others in order to get the best shots.
