ABSTRACT
Ouf. This can be a tricky one. Split families and shared custody can bring all kinds of unique challenges. This scenario is meant for situations where both parents share parenting time and there are no concerns around child protection or safety in either home. We included this scenario because we see it often in our practices, and it causes everyone a lot of distress. It’s not uncommon for kids who have a good relationship with both parents to express reluctance to spend time with one or the other, and for a number of reasons we will discuss. Regardless of the issue, it is vital for co-parents to respond to their child’s feelings while also supporting their life with the other parent. To do so, we must resist the temptation to take on or even relish in the role of “favorite,” even if you see your co-parent as less competent or committed or you don’t agree with how they are managing their time with your child.
