ABSTRACT
The need for a maternal container when this has failed in one’s childhood can be overwhelming. Yet, looking for a containing mother in one’s relationships, and even in one’s therapy, can be unrealistic, especially when the phantasy is that unconditional love and being rescued can be achieved in a pure form. In this short story, we meet Bella, from Part I, who was given the role of containing her mother’s distress during the turbulent time of her parents’ separation. Rescuing a patient, may be a temptation for the therapist as well, but it invariably conceals a wish to rescue oneself. Yet, to provide containment through respectful listening and being there may be the ultimate aim of therapy, and also what makes a real difference.
