ABSTRACT
This chapter discusses the loss and adaptation model of loss. In this model, ‘closure’ is believed to be present when a self-defined normal level of functioning has returned and there’s an ability to remember without impairment. More specifically, if one can feel normal (as they define it), actively remember what they’ve lost, and continue living without those memories interfering, they’re in an adaptive place. The four stages of loss as outlined in this theory are included and taken one by one, examining them in the original context and as applied to addiction and recovery. Suggested areas of client exploration and reflection as well as conversation starters for counselors are included.
