ABSTRACT
The parent's self-esteem can impress us as being relevant during acute crises, but it can be equally relevant in a more long-term perspective. A parent who has problems with eating is almost certain to create an atmosphere where the child's feeding soon turns into an issue. For a question about conflicting ideas to arise in the first place, there is an implication that both parents have equal rights over determining how the child is brought up. A child psychiatrist is often asked to advise parents on how to help a child who is showing signs of distress. But if one finds that there are serious conflicts between the parents that make it difficult for the child to overcome his problems, it becomes virtually impossible to give effective advice. When parents are prepared to cooperate and accept professional help for the child, one can at least recommend psychotherapy.
