ABSTRACT

The therapist enters into an attuned genuine encounter with the client with the immediate goal of providing clients with a secure base from which to explore and grow. As the temporary attachment figure, the therapist is an ally and guide in moving the client toward a felt sense of security, in themselves and in their key relationships. The therapist is both choreographer and dancer, at times leading, and at other times following. The alliance with the client is one of acceptance and collaboration. As a surrogate attachment figure the therapist offers the accessibility, responsiveness, and active engagement found in secure attachment relationships. Concepts are illustrated with case transcripts of real therapy sessions. The specific kind of therapeutic alliance that is necessary for change in EFIT is clarified.